aTtiTudE / ATTITUDE / AttItUdE

aTTiTuDe it is...

They have a reason for everything! They say its ATTITUDE! :O

Of all the existing ones, being Arrogant is the latest one! Both starts with the same 'A' ! Aww! Spells good! ;)

The World of Fashion and Beauty must be redefined! Or Attitude redefined? lol...

Here goes a best count for this re-definition!

A new friend of mine! He says he loves me!

Oops! No! He likes me .. lol

And guess what! He is a Man of Arrogance I must say!

But somebody says :

Man is much smaller than you,

He has Arrogance ,Karma and Maya.

Although he is smaller he has lot more Arrogance.

Because of his Arrogance he turns the world upside down .

He destroys his exalted life because of this Arrogance.

Only when the man understands that he's Arrogant will he become a Real Man!

Wowy! Wonderful it is!

And see this

"Man’s ignorance is only exceeded by man’s arrogance.” ~ J. D. Taylor

Right / Wrong? :|

Well,I must say, I go with the latter since its hard to see somebody being arrogant to one! They have a reason of their own! Because they're focused,they think :

I'm doing it because I am ME ! This is what Attitude is. . . but they call me Arrogant !

Now,you decide what it meant to be?

\/\/eddingbee!

One evening,while I was running around the kitchen trying for something catchy to get stuffed in!


Mom: Mole,Think we'll start planning your marriage! What say?
Me : Oh sure mma! As if I'm ripening with age! Sigh!
Mom: Lemme know if you have any thoughts then!
Me: Now you're seeking for the idea behind self-annihilation!
Mom: But see, You're expected to start thinking for yourself!
Me: Amma,you're trying to set me on the marriage market which I don't appreciate!
Mom: (wicked grin) tho' she looked innocent!

And here are some ideologies I visioned myself! First time thinking about and no wonder it wouldn't be smart as a whip! I enjoy the freedom of only concerning myself tho'.

Prayer to Lord:

• If I get married,he should be the best I could do!
  

Theory behind:

• Deep human need for Lasting Love , Care , Attention!
  

Wish

• Unconditional love, a phenomenon that creates flexibility!
  

Conditions / Don't-s:

• A perfect man in an imperfect world wouldn't be encouraged!
  
• Shouldn't equate intelligent planning with a lack of trust or love!
  
• Money shouldn't be listed as a cause of marriage!
  
• I don't want a man to run my life,instead I need a steady companion!
  
• I almost dislike self-centered ones,so shouldn't he!

Qualities / Do-s:

• Respect is something to be earned and not to be demanded! Every single one on Earth is a wonder of God's creation! Should know how to respect each other!
  
• My dis-qualities should be his qualities and the other way around!
  
• Must be good at communicating with people! Well-mannered , easy-going , fun loving with a pleasant smile pasted on face : these can be added to the trait list.
  
• 3 P's in HIS Practical skills: HIS Plan,HIS Pleasure,HIS Purpose!
  

Will be adding more... :)

Ebullient......

I'm so splendidly Elicited ,Cheerful, Bright and Upbeat !

Amazingly,I'm loving the way it furnishes the mind !

Loving the way it ornaments my Felicitous  Life !

No more anxious edginess about the Happenings unlike ere !

Unreasonable n' Unexplainable blessedness within the self!

Despite having concerned suasions about other's remarks on ,  

Fluttering round the silvered path ,

Sneaky eyes gleaming in inner bosom ,

Hearing the voice of murmuring breeze -

Am I wishing for a passing glance?

Aww No! It's a crazy dream about !

I wish if my words were bigger! lol.... ;)

Mail....

Well...This is a mail I sent last day to a gang in my college.. The ****** is nothing but their gang name and I don't wish to put out here! It really hurts to see people around us being low bred and selfish ! One keeny I've mentioned here is a friend of mine!



Hi ******,

I know its ridiculous to send you a mail when I've had so many chances to talk to you in person.But it's really pathetic to see you (my 3 long years classmates) avoiding me in college! It really hurts even if its for a while! Big deal! I don't think I should be giving much grandness to it tho'! If you wish ,you may talk or else you don't! Can't understand why being like this if we have only a very few countable days together before us!


I thought I'd drop you a mail so that it's easy for you to pass this message to whoever you want thereby saving your time in copying and pasting stuffs!loll...(I know this wouldn't make you laugh..but did I ;) )


Somebody told me that I've hurt you some day..I can't explain since I thought you'd understand my situation! But unfortunately ,the things dint go well and you dint realize the way it is...And a big big SORRY if you still believe the reason for all these craps is me! Neither are we going to meet again after this college..Why going for such uneasiness then? Just wide open your eyes and See something! These are all baseless allegations! Friendship isn't that easy! Don't think it's easy to break the relations so easily! I hope in some day or later you'll perceive the realness!


I wish these matters would never come again within us which will only help in hurting some or others feeling! I understood how much you were hurt from the day keeny chorified me and I suppose you females are still continuing! I've absolutely nothing to tell on it and go on if ya think that's the proper way of reacting to your so-called friend (at least once i were to my noesis! )!


This mail may seems to you a nonsensical one and may it be beyond any limits ! But I can't help it! I've been in this trouble since &&&&&& ! I haven't much ideas about your ****** ! So sending this to all my fellow players! Rest is up to you ! You decide what and how!


Regards
Me


hmm....well well.. "This was funny" my friend said! I loved the way she conveyed it!loll.. But it was distressing at times to see some of my former friends avoiding me! A Dance is a team work and it couldn't be a vaguely specified self interested concern! A fellow member's trouble must be the trouble of the whole! That should be the way it is...ah! Those females wouldn't empathize other's feeling! They just thinking about themselves,their problems,their hard work and all about them as if the whole world is rolling around them! ****** rules! lol...:-|
See folks,we're Grown-ups! But dont they seem like! ;)

I just recalled these words:

"Learn the habit of COMPROMISE...
Because its better to bend a little,
Than to break a lovely relationship!
Forgive quickly,Believe slowly,
LOVE truly & Laugh loudly!"

Yeah I'm learning to appreciate the elegance of COMPROMISE through my experience! :)I was right! But they were right as well ! Now what? Let's grasp and bump with a linguistic reason! loll...

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A Techno-Cultural Fest to be conducted by the Com

puter Science Department of Sree Chitra Thirunal College Of Engineering,Pappanamcode,Trivandrum at Nishagandi, Kanakakunnu on Saturday,28th February.

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Catch Gauarav Dagaonkar Live for the first time in Trivandrum on March 1st! Relive your 'COLLEGE DAYS'...

For those who think Music is Metal ,this is going to be a fantastic imagery for the Rock Music Lovers! The Stunners set to rock the stage for SOUL BURN !

Click , Relive and Witness the MaGic!

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Be there to bear witness the mojo on February 28th and March 1st at Kanakakunnu Palace Grounds & Nishagandhi...

Valentine's day it is!

Noticed a mail from Editor bob in my inbox wishing me a Valentine's day!Well, I shouldn't be excited for this reason for I haven't any valentine this time too ! lol...:)
Not that I'm dismayed for not having one..I'm glad that I have a huge list of friends!But for the past couple of days,I've been feeling blue and depressed for no particular reason ! Horrible nights I should say ! ( Those in red italic are from Editor bob's and not mine.. lol.. )

He likes me!

He likes me not!

He likes me!

Make sure he DOES at least this time!

Or you gonna loose him !

bah! who cares! I've never even cared for biggie affairs!
Then why bother ?

So was the end exciting? Anything peculiar? Yeah! But the reason was in one way or other unlike and the one on other side used to be my admirer since my schooldays ! lol... I was sent a mail on the day and here it is....

"Hii ....i mean bye since i don't want to disturb u again. I'll shut this relation forever ! Its been a long time since this one way thingy ! I'm signing off forever ..All these years( might be 6+ ) i been thinking of u! Only u! And I realized i can never be your friend ! I tried to love many other ones,but I could only see u on them ..I thought what if u realize my love for you in my near future ...But this is far toooooooo long ..May be you are right !I've no idea! Anyhow, bye and lots of blessing! May God give you more good hearted one...."

And what does he mean? But I couldn't be confused about this guy ! Can't understand how guys could say all these things if they fail to make friendship with the so-called crap...lol

I replied...

" I still can't figure out what your 'love ' is! You said you loved me ,cared me and many craps! But I doubt if you're sick! Now it's a good decision and a valuable turn! Its good to know that you've realized the 'things' at least now!

By all odds, I don't appreciate such things! I rarely make friends with guys! I believe guys are 'this' ,'that ' and what all craps! And the decision you took (at least)now is really appreciable! But surprisingly, I'm astonished to see your message which contains something like ' STOPPED IT ONLY BY NOW'? I thought you'd have already long before! lol...blah! whateva! bye! "

A kinda ill-mannered reply ! But I'm helpless ,but happy for his new turn! Bye admirer!

Heck ! I'm sick!

I'm sick of being sick! I'm sick with a cold ,runny nose,itchy eyes !
Achooooo! 'GOD BLESS ' as my friend says! I think God is busy blessing me today!Achoo! :D


I suppose my cold + allergy started working up! May be I should go to a doctor instead of sitting here and diagnosing myself! Yuk! But I hate having medicinal drugs! It can just help you in getting addicted to it!

My clock shows its 11 and my cell beeps! A message from a  sweetie pie asking for my reason of absence in class!Huh, I realized something! There is at least somebody missing me in college! lol . . Sickness couldn't be the only reason why I bunked today! I simply love bunking classes ! ;) Or is it that I'm wanting to be at home for a slothful day? I love being home for no absolute reason!  ;)

I cleaned my room today! Wowy! What is so wondrous in it is I have washed a tons of clothes I've been collecting for ages! There is just another pile of clothes I don't need to care about! May be I could finish of it in another 12 or more months! That doesn't mean I'm going to sacrifice all my clothes ! My mom certainly wishes to get a chance!Well. . I wish if she does! :D In any case,I've been very surprised by mine for I even intended to go some laundry a fews days back ! But I somehow managed to do it all by myself! Yay!
Tho' I was after a plan to hand-wash all my clothes so as to prove my physical fitness to mummy !lol. . .The prime reason for these piles ! I supposed I could do all my works by my own once our servant aunti left our place for some medical reason her hubby had! She's not yet back home! I'm worried if my mom has sacked her from being home! :O I can't have any other reason for her vanishing into moonshine. . . I badly miss her since I'm asked to clean my room,wash my clothes ,make tea serve myself every single thing without an aid! :( Now,I need to stack my clothes well coiffed on my wardrobe! I can have no concern for I mostly dislike having a disarrayed wardrobe!

Lemme go back and start my work then! :)